I’m addicted. OK? I admit it baldly (B is 4… A is 1…). But it’s not a total wash. Firstly, my word geekiness is improving, so that’s exciting. (X is 8.) Also, I’ve noticed that life and WWF have some quirky things in common. Like:
1. Don’t compare.
Sometimes you’re playing someone who is waaay better than you. And your self-esteem takes a beating. Or sometimes you’re crushing your opponent and you start feeling kind of puffed up. Stop. And realize that you don’t know what’s on her rack, and he doesn’t know what’s on yours. How much experience does she have? Maybe he’s dyslexic. Maybe she’s playing for the first time. Maybe he has the flu (he, too, is addicted. Hey, that has a C, which is four). You know? You just don’t know what’s happening. So don’t compare. You’ll never come out ahead that way.
2. Bad rack.
So you have four A’s, two E’s and an I. What’re you gonna do, kvetch about it? (If that’s a real word, that’s awesome, because the K and the V are 5 each.) Is a bad rack REALLY a bad rack? Maybe it makes you a better player. And maybe it’s better than your opponent’s rack… see #1. A good player is not he who can play a good rack. It’s he who can take an awful (Ooh! A W and an F. 4 and 4.) one and do something really creative with it.
3. It’s finite.
Really, this game will end and you can try another. There are only a certain number of tiles that can be played (quick, how many??) and then it’s time for a fresh start. You don’t ever have to get stuck in a permanent rut.
4. Have fun.
Don’t be so obsessed with points that you forget to enjoy yourself. Every once in awhile, play a word just because it’s awesome (like “plotz” – thank you, to my recent opponent for that great one, and of course we all know a Z is 10!) even if the score value isn’t quite as high or it brings your opponent dangerously close to a triple word spot.
5. Look at it with fresh eyes.
So you’ll look at the board. And you’ll say, “There is absolutely nothing to do.” Then you’ll go to sleep. Because it’s 2 am and you’re still playing. Because you’re nuts. Because you’re addicted. So when you wake up and
it’s the first thing you look at you get a chance to sneak a peek, all of a sudden you see a great move! And you’re like, “THAT was there all along?” Yup. It was. But sometimes you just need fresh eyes.
6. Make your failure a success.
So you’re losing. And then your opponent plays some crazy ridiculous word. Like, “qifru.” (No, I made it up. Don’t try to play it.) No one knows what it means. But you feel like an idiot because now he is 92 points richer than you. Guess what, but? You just learned a scary new word to hit a future opponent with. Because a failure can always be turned into future success.
So go ahead. Download it. Invite me to play. And then we can enjoy some qifru (10, 1, 4, 1, 2…).
This is awesome. I'm a huge believer that nearly everything can be sanctified, and you just pulled some deep Jewish wisdom out of my favorite game. I am always trying to get away with Yiddish words!
I love this! Know what I've learned? I've learned that I should probably try to play WWF with you 🙂
I love this! You and Renee are making me want to play again! Like, right now!
I would stink at that game! Hilarious post.
So I've never heard about Words With Friends before. Therefore your first paragraph really surprised me:
is Ruchi really into wildlife (World Wildlife Fund)? even more shocking, is Ruchi into WRESTLING?!?!? (World Wrestling Federation)
Once the wires in my brain connected, I enjoyed the post and will give this WWF a try. But don't try to talk me into wrestling Ruchi, I really don't think it's for me 🙂
Mmm…wrestling with ideas, maybe? That's about it!
So if we want to play with you, what user name should we be looking for?
I'm also someone who never heard of Words With Friends, probably because I don't have a smart phone, but also because I don't play electronic games. But it is great that you can express moral lessons from your game play.
Thanks. It's the only online game I ever played. Most of them hold no interest.
I hereby declare, for my own addiction-prone accountability's sake, that I will not go try out this game.
An observation: Nothing specifically Jewish in this post . . . Somehow that unsettles me!
You entitled the post 'spiritual' lessons. This makes sense because the ideas you describe are not exclusive to Judaism. I think.
Sometimes I think, Ruchi, that you are just a positive-minded spiritual person who happens to be O. I mean this not at all in a negative way. I think you believe that all the positivity comes from Judaism itself, but I have the impression it is from you personally. Disagree?
I could give you all the Jewish words and phrases whence I learned the above. Anyway, there is plenty of universal wisdom out there that is Torah-compatible.
Maybe you're seeing the optimal, under-the-influence-of-Judaism me.
But you're the second person today to ask me this…
I never heard of this game; after reading the comments, I now understand why the post made no sense at first 🙂