“You don’t recycle??  Don’t you care about the environment?  How could you not??  It’s not so hard.  Seriously.  There are recycle bins wherever you go these days.  Can I come over to your house and show you how to do it?  I’ll bring the bags and everything.   See you tomorrow!”

“You don’t keep kosher??  Don’t you care about your soul?  How could you not??  It’s not so hard.  Seriously.  There’s kosher stuff available wherever you go these days.  Can I come over to your house and show you how to do it?  I’ll bring the kashering pot and everything.  See you tomorrow!”

Questions:
1. Which conversation really happened?
2. Which is more offensive?
3. Would either inspire you to change your ways?