Uncategorized April 9, 2018

Let It Go

The extreme journey from utter control to complete release of control in parenting is frightening. No one seems to travel it bump-free. It’s more like a free-fall, hitting your head; spraining your ankle; losing your balance, and landing in a heap at the bottom wondering what happened.

Jewish Inspiration March 26, 2018

Be the Zaidy

Passover approaches like a returning visitor bringing melting snow and sunshiny Sunday afternoons to clean your car in the driveway. Every year it marches forward steadily, predictably. The smells of Passover coming: frying onions, potato starch cakes, hard-boiled eggs.

Uncategorized March 12, 2018

Growing Up

When you live in your hometown you have this funny dynamic with the people who are your parents’ peers. On the one hand, you’re a fully formed adult and so are they, so to an extent you’re now peers. You might find yourself teaching their children or having them on a volunteer team with you. The previous boundaries get mixed up.

Uncategorized February 3, 2018

Sharing is Caring

In this age of social media and digital technology, I’ve been having lots of conversations with my friends (via social media and digital technology) about vulnerability. Vulnerability, you should know, is also known as “sharing.” Before the internet “sharing” was something you taught your toddler and it involved trucks and blocks. Now it involves revealing scary and potentially embarrassing things about yourself with others whom you may or may not know.

Uncategorized January 15, 2018

An Interview with “In Shifra’s Arms”

Hey OOTOB readers,
I was introduced to Erica Pelman, and I’m so excited about her work. I love when the Jewish community meets the needs of its members in unexpected (see what I did there?) ways and I’m proud to feature an interview today with Erica. Please note that abortion is a delicate issue in Jewish law and it’s not black-and-white.
Book Reviews December 20, 2017

Movie Review: The Women’s Balcony

On the way home from my last trip to Israel, I watched a movie I’ve been wanting to see for a while: “The Women’s Balcony.” The movie, set in Israel, is part of a new genre of film that studies Orthodox Jews and actually gets it right. It’s pretty exciting.