Looks like this is “how to” month here on OOTOB, but this is a follow up from my post about intuitive eating, and I think it’s important to address here because a few people have observed the “frum 10” (also known as the “frum 15”) which is the weight you gain when you become Orthodox and start eating Thanksgiving dinner twice a week plus a bar mitzvah or wedding thrown regularly into the mix.
I haven’t done a giveaway on this blog in forever! Figured the time has come!
THE PRIZE: a CD of one of my most popular talks, “Why Bother to Reach Your Potential?”
2. Why is my Seder different from all the other Seder?
3. Why is my kid different from all the other kids?
4. Why is my life different from all the other lives?
Greetings, OOTOB readers!
Hope you’ve all been well. Today’s post will be a conglomeration of stuff I’ve been into.
1. CLEANING FOR PASSOVER IN ONE DAY, GONE VIRAL
Firstly, my post from a couple years ago on cleaning for Passover in one day appears to have gone viral this year. That makes me both happy and sad. Happy, that more people can understand that Passover is about joy and that God would never give us an unmanageable task, and sad that so many people are freaking out about Passover. 8,000 hits this week alone tells me that people are kinda into this topic. Ya think? It’s gotten so that when I go grocery shopping, people stop me to say, “I hear you have this thing with cleaning for Pesach in one day…?” Yeah, I’m that girl. So check it out and pass it along.
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3. STAYING CONNECTED TO JUDAISM BETWEEN HOLIDAYS
This recent Kveller post by my online (soon to be IRL) blogging buddy Nina Badzin – I’m headed to Minneapolis on Sunday to address Aish on Women in Judaism – is a really important post. It’s short and deceptively simple, but don’t be fooled. None of these things are commonly blurted out in a word-association game about Judaism, but all of them are in the Good Book right with shofar, matza, and l’chaim. Read it and tell me what you think. Judaism is meant to lived and expressed every day – and primarily in the home. Check it out.
4. BOOK UPDATE
My book, a women’s prayerbook, is done and off to my editor! The publishing company Mosaica Press is handling it, and I’m feeling a huge sense of relief now that it’s out of my hands – at least this phase of it. It doesn’t have a name yet, so please weigh in on my two options, as developed by my trusty crowdsourcing marketing team on Facebook:
1. Calling God: a women’s prayerbook of conversation and connection
2. Prism of Prayer: a women’s prayerbook of conversation and reflection
Basically, don’t worry about the subtitle so much, but envision yourself at Barnes and Noble or recommending it to a friend. Which title has more punch, interest, and memorability?
It’s due out this fall, so keep your eyes and ears open for that.
5. HAIRCOVERING UPDATE
A couple of months ago I blogged about my evolving views on haircovering; specifically, methods of which to do so.
Each year I put together a shutterfly album of our family’s pictures from that year, and I noticed in my absorption in that project that I really, really, like the way I look in the pictures with scarves. It encouraged me to wear more of them, as opposed to wigs, which I hate wearing.
Anyhoo, that’s what’s been going on around here. Happy preparations for Passover, for my Jewish readers 🙂
So the bald truth is that I’ve been too busy to blog. Oy, the honesty! Nevertheless, I’d never abandon you in your moment of need.
Here are some Chanukah laughs, and here are some ideas (too late for this year, no doubt, but just to kick yourself about how smart you could have been).
I wrote an article for the Jewish Women’s Renaissance Project, the [insert insane hyperbole here] organization that sponsors the women’s trips to Israel I’ve been running since 2009 – and going again in April – woot! It’s got some grammar glitches cuz I wrote it in a rush (oy, the honesty!) but I think it’s still passable. It’s something I feel strongly about, and I’d love to hear your thoughts.
The Chanukah story is Judaism’s classic lesson of finding a bit of light amid the darkness. As the famed Kotzker Rebbe said, “A little bit of light dispels much darkness.” The iconic tale of the small bit of oil that lasted eight days serves as inspiration for us in the darkest days of winter.The Jewish people have been the victim of so much darkness of late. Hate crimes, terror, world denouncement and prejudice have all become the new normal. How to react, how to cope?? How can little old me deal with all this? The only way is to resolve to just shine a little bit of light and make a difference in that way…read more by clicking here
(Oh, and I’m pretty sure I misattributed that quote. It was Shneur Zalman of Liadi.)
On another note, by ebook is coming along nicely thanks to my detail-oriented fellow grammar-nerd daughter, whom I’ve hired to edit it. And my prayer book is, like, 75% written. We’re progressing, people. Patience.
Well, here we go again. Tonight and tomorrow are Tisha B’av – the saddest time on the Jewish calendar.
It’s always a struggle to “make myself sad” so I can appropriately commemorate this day. Not this year, though.
It’s usually tough to conjure up feelings of wistfulness about our nation’s eventual return, unified, to our Land. Not this year, though.
Sometimes it’s hard to imagine our land full of dead and wounded. Not this year, though.
It can be a stretch, at the height of summer, to pause from our revelry, from our swimming, from dancing at weddings, from outdoor barbecues – to focus on loss and pain. Not this year, though.
At one time it seemed a bit overblown to state that we were surrounded by enemies who wished to see us dead. Not this year, though.
And ultimately? It has, at some points in my life, been difficult to truly pray for life to change, to bring in its wake better times, peaceful times, happy times.
Not this year.
May this be the last Tisha B’av – this year, and any year.